Our Sober Living House Rules

Zero Tolerance for Alcohol and Drugs
Residents may not possess or use alcohol, drugs, or any mind/mood-altering substances (including Kratom, CBD, or synthetic drugs). Violations will result in dismissal from the program.

Respectful Behavior
Threatening, abusive, discriminatory, or assaultive behavior is not tolerated. Physical violence, theft (including food), or destruction of property will result in dismissal.

Weapons
Weapons of any kind, including knives and firearms, are prohibited. Violations will result in dismissal.

Sexual Misconduct
Sexual misconduct or harassment is prohibited. Romantic or sexual relationships between residents and staff are strictly forbidden. Violations will result in dismissal.

Criminal Activity
Any criminal activity on or off NBSNC property will result in dismissal and may be reported to authorities.

Financial Misconduct
Residents may not borrow, lend, barter, sell, or exchange personal property or money. Such activities cause conflict and are prohibited.

Substance Abuse Reporting
Residents are expected to report substance use or other violations to staff to maintain a safe environment.

Smoking and Vaping
Smoking or vaping is prohibited inside the building.

Chores and Cleanliness
Residents must complete assigned chores and maintain cleanliness in their rooms and common areas.

Recovery Meetings
Attend a minimum of 4 recovery-based meetings per week (5 if working fewer than 30 hours/week).

Curfew Compliance
All residents must comply with curfew rules set by NBSNC.

• Substance Abuse: Any use or possession of alcohol, drugs, or paraphernalia results in dismissal.
   
• Violence and Theft: Any form of violence, threat, intimidation, discrimination, or theft results in dismissal and may be reported to authorities.
   

Voluntary Participation
Participation in NBSNC is voluntary. Fees are for program participation, not rent.

Program Fees

• $175 per week, due every Sunday.
   
• Entry Fee: $175 (first week) + $100 (non-refundable admission) = $275 total.
  Failure to pay or communicate about payment plans may result in dismissal.
   

Vacating the Property
If asked to leave, residents must vacate within one hour. Belongings left behind become property of NBSNC.

1. House Manager
    
2. Housing Director
    
3. Executive Director (for grievances against Housing Director)
    

One Step Software
Residents must use the One Step app to check into meetings, IOP sessions, and employment (when required).

• Curfew:
   
  • Sunday–Thursday: 11:00 PM
     
  • Friday–Saturday: 12:00 AM
     
  • Exceptions must be approved by staff.
     
• Lights Out:
   
  • Sunday–Thursday: 12:00 AM
     
  • Friday–Saturday: 1:00 AM
     
  • Quiet hours begin after lights out; no laundry or cooking.
     
• Late Arrivals:
  Late arrivals may require a $10 drug screening at the resident’s expense.
   
• Check-In:
  Residents must confirm home arrival via GroupMe nightly.
   

After 31 days, residents may request up to 2 overnight passes per week.

• Requests must be submitted 24 hours in advance via a group chat with the House Manager and Men’s Director (not GroupMe).
   
• Approval is based on dues, meetings, chores, cleanliness, and behavior.
   

• Sexual Misconduct: Any inappropriate touching, kissing, sexual involvement, or verbal sexual harassment is prohibited.
   
• Relationships: NBSNC discourages romantic relationships in early recovery.
   

• Random Testing: Must be completed within one hour of notice. Failure or refusal is treated as a positive test.
   
• THC Testing Upon Entry:
   
  • Positive results require a $50 lab test.
     
  • Retest in 30 days with another $50 fee.
     
  • Must show decreased levels or face dismissal.
     

Tobacco use is allowed only in designated outdoor areas. Smoking or vaping indoors will result in dismissal.

• All medications must be disclosed.
   
• Controlled medications are stored and dispensed by staff.
   
• MAT Friendly: Suboxone (max 8mg/day).
   
• Discrepancies or non-compliance will result in dismissal.
   
• A taper plan must be discussed upon entry.
   

Attendance is mandatory. Missing a meeting may result in dismissal.

• Minimum 4 recovery meetings per week (3 after 6 months sobriety).
   
• Meetings include IOP, AA, NA, CA, Celebrate Recovery, or religious services.
   
• Sponsor required within 21 days of entry.
   
• In-house meetings may count toward the requirement.
   

• No visitors allowed in resident rooms.
   
• Guests must be sober, approved, and leave 1 hour before curfew.
   
• Visits limited to 2 hours.
   

• Keep personal areas neat and bed made daily.
   
• Complete assigned chores on time.
   
• Shower daily and wash bed linens weekly.
   

All beds must be made daily as part of morning accountability.

• Unemployed residents must apply for 5 in-person or 20 online jobs daily (with proof).
   
• Must be out of bed by 8:30 AM and remain productive until 4:00 PM unless otherwise approved.
   

Security cameras are present in common areas. Tampering will result in dismissal.

Use must be approved. Excessive use may result in removal.

Non–zero-tolerance issues will be addressed with opportunities for correction. Habitual non-compliance may result in dismissal.

• One-week notice required before leaving to receive refund.
   
• Failure to provide notice forfeits current week’s fees.
   
• Overpayments refunded within 5 business days.
   

Follow house parking rules.
Do not block driveways, mailboxes, or fire zones.

Be mindful of utilities:
Turn off lights, conserve water, and run full loads.
Only managers adjust thermostats (70/68 winter).
Help keep program costs low.

NBSNC provides:

• Toilet paper
   
• Paper towels
   
• Cleaning supplies
   

Residents provide their own food, hygiene products, and personal items.

After six months of sobriety:

• Meeting requirements drop to 3 per week.
  Continued disregard for program rules will result in dismissal.